Traditions are WONDERFUL! They keep us connected.
That's what our family's Memorial Day traditions have done for us. There's nothing fancy to it, but what's important is the time we spend together, the conversations we have and the memories we make.
Sometimes the whole family goes up to the cemetery and collects the old vases and cleans up the graves at the same time but often someone just collects the vases and we clean up the graves when we go back with the arrangements. It gives us time talk about each person as we work.